When Your Bank Account Doesn’t Agree with Your Passion
Have you ever found yourself super passionate about your job, yet constantly stressed about making ends meet? You're not alone. Many people experience the uncomfortable tension of loving their work while struggling to pay the bills. This tension, or cognitive dissonance, can leave you feeling conflicted and dissatisfied, even in a role you adore.
Cognitive Dissonance
Cognitive dissonance occurs when you hold two conflicting beliefs or values at the same time. In this case, it’s the joy and fulfillment you derive from your career clashing with the harsh reality of financial instability. You might be thinking, "I love what I do, but why can’t it support me financially?"
Passion fuels your motivation and drives you to excel in your career. It’s the reason you wake up excited to go to work, the reason you put in those extra hours, and the reason you continue to push through challenges. However, when that passion doesn't translate into a living wage, it can lead to stress, anxiety, and even burnout. This emotional rollercoaster can make it difficult to fully enjoy the work you love.
In the field of Behavior Analysis, the staff members who are with the clients day in and day out and who implement the interventions that the Behavior Analyst’s create are called Registered Behavior Technicians (RBTs). RBTs are typically paid hourly between $17 and $25/hour for around 30 hours a week. These numbers are super variable, though, due to client cancellations, sickness, vacation, etc. RBTs who are in grad school and working toward because a BCBA with a higher salary have that goal to look toward. But I often wonder about individuals who choose to be career RBTs; there must be some major cognitive dissonance between their clear passion for the job, and the fact that they’ll likely never get paid what they’re fully worth.
The financial strain in situations like this isn't just about the numbers in your bank account. It's about the constant worry of not being able to cover basic expenses, the frustration of watching others in less fulfilling but higher-paying jobs thrive, and the nagging question of whether your passion is worth the financial sacrifice.
Finding Balance
So, how do you navigate this cognitive dissonance? Here are a few strategies to help you find balance:
Reevaluate Your Budget: Take a close look at your finances. Are there areas where you can cut back or find additional savings? Creating a more manageable budget can alleviate some of the financial pressure.
Seek Additional Income: Consider finding side gigs or freelance work that can supplement your income. This can provide the financial cushion you need without requiring you to give up your passion.
Negotiate Your Worth: Don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself. Research industry standards and be prepared to discuss your value with your employer. Sometimes, a conversation about pay can lead to a better compensation package.
Professional Development: Invest in yourself. Taking courses or gaining certifications can make you more valuable in your field, potentially leading to higher-paying opportunities.
Explore Financial Coaching: If managing your finances feels overwhelming, seek out a financial coach who can help you create a plan and set achievable goals.
It’s also important to remember that your career journey is just that—a journey. The current financial strain doesn't have to be permanent. By taking proactive steps to manage your finances and advocate for your worth, you can work towards a future where your passion and financial stability coexist.
